Posted in Boston November 13, 2017 by

9 Things You Must Know About Dating Someone From Boston

Looking to date a Bostonian? Congratulations on your excellent taste! And the good news is that the dating pool is pretty large in Boston. According to Point2Homes, 57.3% of the Boston population has never married! Still, everyone wants to make a good impression. So, here are some things to bear in mind when dating a Bostonian:

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1. Your first date may well be on the Common.
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According to the LunchDates website, that's the most popular destination for a first date. It makes sense... it's pretty, free, and convenient to lots of restaurants if you want to extend the date - or to the T if you need to make a quick escape!
2. Dating a native Bostonian and dating someone who moved to the city later in life are likely to be completely different experiences.
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A quarter of Bostonians are foreign born, but that doesn’t even account for all the people who came from out-of-state for college or career opportunities. We’ve established that the dating pool is large, but it’s also incredibly diverse.
3. There are more women than men in Boston.
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Specifically, 52.1% of the population is female while 47.9% is male (according to Point2Homes).
4. Warmth often beats out fashion.
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If it really comes down to it, many of us choose comfort over style. While a lovely dress or sharp suit look nice, do you really want to snuggle with someone whose hands feel like blocks of ice?
5. Sports attire is almost always acceptable.
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It's the default wardrobe of the indecisive dresser.
6. Game day is a big deal here, regardless of the sport.
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Even if you don't plan to watch, suggesting a date at the same time as the big game may not go over well.
7. When it comes to dating in Boston, being geographically convenient is a huge plus.
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No one wants to add to their daily travel time; living close to us, or to our college or workplace, adds to the appeal!
8. We're a smart bunch.
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Given the number of students in Boston, your educational background is likely to be a topic of conversation. It's a great way to find common ground.
9. Most of us love Boston, so don’t criticize our city.
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The exceptions are weather and traffic. We enjoy complaining about those. It's also an easy icebreaker.

There you have it! Dating in Boston can be tons of fun – even if you don’t find that special someone, you will absolutely meet some fantastic people and make new friends along the way. We hope these handy tips help out on your first date (and hopefully many more to come)!