You’ll Want To Think Twice Before Doing These 17 Things In Virginia
Living in Virginia might be a highlight for many people, but for those who are familiar, there are a few things you’re going to want to avoid doing or saying while here. It’s for your own good, we promise. Consider this your cheat sheet for a long and happy life here in the lovely Commonwealth…we mean, state…we mean, Commonwealth. Oh whatever…just read on. For all you out-of-towners, newbies, or returning Virginians who may have forgotten the ground rules, here are a few tips on things to avoid.
1. Interstates ending in “95” on a Friday…or any morning, afternoon, or weekend.
Between the Tyson’s Corner Center Mall and Galleria Mall, there are plenty top o’ the line shops, department stores, and restaurants to keep even the “Real Housewives” happy. But trying to fight those crowds or find parking during peak shopping times? No, thanks. My Amazon Prime subscription is an investment well worth the money.
If you stub your toe on the Virginia Beach boardwalk, you’d better have some family-friendly words handy, because saying the real thing could land you with a ticket. In 2014 alone, 25 people were charged with public profanity – resulting in $6,250 in cursing fines alone. That’s a pretty $&#^% high price to pay for profanity.
5. Mentioning politics…ever. Unless you’re a politician and even then you should be careful.
Our shops look like the set of Walking Dead right before bad weather hits. An apocalyptic last run for milk, bread, and water makes for empty shelves, homicidal shoppers, and long lines. It’s better to keep a bomb shelter stockpile year-round. Just saying. Living in Virginia is a wild ride.
7. Implying that Virginia is the same as West Virginia.
No offense to our western neighbors, but it is most certainly NOT the same. [Insert your favorite West Virginia joke here, but know they’ve got a few on us, too.]
I understand the purpose of speed limits, especially in a small town. But don’t be surprised if the speed limit suddenly drops from 55mph to 25mph in a matter of yards and a radar gun-wielding cop is waiting for you just past the sign. They have a job to do – even if they seem to enjoy it way too much.
I’m not saying it’s easy, I’m just saying don’t do it. “When in Rome”, people. Even if that means you have to practice ahead of time, better to get it right than incur the derision and wrath of the locals. That is unless of course, you’re ok with having “out-of-towner” tattooed on your forehead.
10. Implying that the Pilgrims had the first Thanksgiving.
Nope. School kids around the country can make all of the construction paper Pilgrim hats they want, but it doesn’t change the fact that we beat them by 2 years. The REAL first Thanksgiving was at Berkeley Plantation in 1619.
What absolute, and apparently genetically passed, lapse in judgment has caused teachers and school staff to take dozens of elementary and middle school kids to Busch Gardens for generations now? I suppose some people just have more patience than others – or the herding skills of a sheepdog.
12. Road Construction….oh wait…that can’t be avoided. Sorry.
It’s like texting and driving. Virginia has the highest percentage of personalized plates in the country – and we’re clever about putting our coded messages within the 7-character limit. But trying to figure them out in traffic? It’s an accident waiting to happen.
Fall is breeding season and deer get sassy. They’re everywhere and they’re not looking where they’re going when it comes to roads. Just imagine trying to drive down the halls of a middle school. It’s pretty much the same thing.
15. Planning an event in the spring…unless you have 3 changes of clothes.
Spring is one of the most beautiful living in Virginia rules– no doubt about it. But she’s a fickle one. It’s hot. It’s cold. It’s sunny. It’s rainy. So unless your sundress converts to a snowsuit or your entire wardrobe can be waterproof, you’re going to want to have a back-up plan.
You're going to get slammed either way. We are a commonwealth, meaning that we have a government based on common consent, as well as having independent cities – but it doesn’t have any real legal implication. We received our statehood in 1788 and “The Commonwealth of Virginia” is part of our state name. I know it’s confusing. The terms can be used interchangeably unless you’re in front of someone who disagrees with you. In which case, your best bet is to just nod and smile.
17. Making fun of Virginia. In any way. Ever. (Unless you’re from Virginia, of course.)
We love to make fun of ourselves, but no one else can. It’s kind of like when someone else picked on your little brother. You could give him wedgies all day, but let someone else mess with him? Then it’s game on.
Now that you have the basics down for living in Virginia, let us know what your tips are for keeping the peace and making the most of all that is this beautiful state! Sound off in the comments section!
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March 24, 2021
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Is Virginia a great place to live?
While reading everything mentioned above might make you skeptical, life in Virginia is pretty darn great. First and foremost, Virginia is a state that has all four seasons. If you’re a fan of experiencing each season as it comes, then Virginia is the place for you. Additionally, Virginia offers also a variety in terms of nature. You’ll be able to hike various mountains in the country, but also visit the ocean if you’re looking for some beach time! Check out these 20 reasons why living in Virginia is the best.
What are the weirdest things about Virginia?
Sure, Virginia is pretty beautiful and has tons of history, but what about all the weird things in Virginia that nobody wants to talk about?! Everyone loves those stories that center around the weird things that happen within the state. And by weird, we mean back in 2004 when a private school in Alexandria accidentally served students margaritas rather than limeade! Or when in 2012, Hank the Cat came in third for the state senate race. Yikes! Check out the 10 strangest things to ever happen in Virginia.
What is Virginia known for?
Out of all of the things to know about Virginia, you should start with what the state is known for. Simply put, Virginia is known as the birthplace of a nation—the site of the first permanent English settlement within the country. Jamestown, the first capital of Virginia, was also the first of the original 13 colonies founded in the United States. Talk about a history lesson! Also, if you want to dive even deeper into the state’s past, then check out these 13 things you probably didn’t know about Virginia history.
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Virginia staff writer for Only in Your State, freelance writer and journalist. Even though Anna has lived other places, somehow Virginia is where she always seems to land.
